MARK'S... ------------------------------------------------------------ * * * *** * * ***** * ***** ***** ***** ***** *** * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *** * *** * * *** *** * * * * * * * * * * * * * ***** *** * ***** ***** ***** * * ***** * * ------------------------------------------------------------ Volume 2 ~ Issue 3 ~ 13 January 2000 (C)2000 Mark Krell ------------------------------------------------------------ USING WOMEN RESOURCES WELL. Lady readers need only to reverse the gender references. Why men need to practice better economy with women... There are lots of people in the world... Take away all of those you wouldn't have anything to do with for whatever your reasons... Now there are not so many people in the world... Of those who are left, many have been emotionally hurt, physically injured, had their minds jerked around, and their intellects and their persons insulted by stupid, crazy, or cruel men. Relationships can end because of many reasons... If the parties of the relationship have been honest with each other throughout their relationship, they can part as friends and be inclined to try again with someone new. Hurt many woman and they'll find it hard to trust a new man enough to allow a new love to develop with him. With the ones you hurt gone, my women resources are again diminished. Will those of you guys who are stupid stop ruining my women resources and start practicing good stewardship with the ladies!!!!! ----------------------------------------------------------- I LOVE YOU AND I LOVE HER. The extent to which some men go to deliver craziness to women truly amazes me... I love both of you only flies if you believe love to be some nebulous thing without real definition... Certainly can't be valid if your idea of love includes true intimacy... How can one man make two women feel truly important to him unless he's one lying son-of-a-... A good friend and I chuckle about one fellow who seems to have a new fiance just about twice monthly. It seems incredulous that those who are old enough to be expected to be really "grownup" can be stupid enough to sling such manure! I own that I can feel loving feelings for more than one person... I have loving feelings towards most of the ladies who read LoveLetters... I have very warm feelings towards the men on the LoveLetter list... No guys, this doesn't mean we have to take showers together :) But, it takes TIME... Where does one person get the TIME to give more than one other the attention to know them well enough to help them to feel truly loved? Men who play with more than one while telling both they are loved, do something that I think is criminal even if he doesn't marry both of them! And, it's bad economy of women resources! ------------------------------------------------------------ THE SAD SACK. DON'T YOU DARE get involved with a sad sack... Sad Sacks are not hard to recognize... They have losing at life patterns which are not hard to see like always being broke, still living with their wife, and not living under a roof. Do you want to be Mrs. Sad Sack? ----------------------------------------------------------- BAD BOYS... There was a time during which I spoke to a lot of street ladies... I was married to an unmotivated housekeeper and didn't have the resources to hire a regular housekeeper. We agreed that if I could find a homeless lady who would show her appreciation of a good home with two hours of housework daily, it would be good for her and good for us... The idea was to let her keep any money she earned outside with a part or full time job. It's amazing how many poor ladies hit the streets because their significant others are in jail... When asked why they stay with a guy who is in jail they invariably reply, "Because I love him!" I used to tell them that if he really loved them, he wouldn't be doing things that would result in him being taken away from her. Mrs. Bad Boy for all practical purposes is a widow. -------------------------------------------------------------- THE UNCLEAN. Hey dirty guys!!! What's with you??? In this day and age with television advertising everywhere you still don't understand the benefits of using SOAP???... And, what's with you guys who look clean but fail to clean ALL of yourself?... I've heard complaints from wives that certain things become unpleasant when they encounter parts of you that others do not see... And then you're unhappy when they don't wanna do certain things?... Being heavier and keeping clean is harder, but well worth the effort. Have you ever considered that you not being clean can cause a lady to have a headache? I know this because I have developed headaches a few times in response to a few ladies who have not presented their best selves to me. Most ladies are not stupid... They know that if you don't care for yourself well, you'll be too lazy and uncaring to care well for them! I've NEVER met a good lady who wanted to be known as Mrs. Dirty Guy. ------------------------------------------------------------------ THE UNCARING. Get that stupid wart removed! Get your broken teeth fixed! Shirts and trousers don't have to be expensive... Try dressing like you have some self-respect, and maybe she'll respect you! Need I say this?... According to what I hear from many ladies, I do need to say this... SHAVE! TRIM THOSE NOSE HAIRS! Or, keep your beard and mustache neatly trimmed... It's true that some ladies like mountain men, but I've noticed that most of them can't spell or they rarely wear shoes. Learn how to use a mirror!... See yourself as others see you!... Ask yourself if the lady you wish was interested in you sees a desirable man when you come into her field of vision. And, if you are lucky enough to have a sweetie, do you still look like the man she wanted when she got together with you (normal wear and tear notwithstanding)? If not, WHY ARE YOU BETRAYING HER??? -------------------------------------------------------------- THE BLIND. I met a highly respected university professor at a prominent university who had an unusual hair on his nose... It grew upward from a spot on the ridge of his nose about one and three quarters of an inch from the tip of his nose. It grew upward for about a quarter of an inch and then bent downward following the ridge of his nose for about an inch and three eighths and then curled downward and formed two quarter inch circles which rested near the tip of his nose. And it was black. From his reputation, I'm sure he is very competent in his profession... I certainly thought he was a very nice person, and he was sociable. But I couldn't look him in the eye... All I saw was this nose hair! It was so big and such a prominent feature that the only explanation I could think of was that he was blind! BUT, he was moving around like he had good vision. I've wondered why his lovely wife hasn't snuck up on him with a good pair of tweezers while he was asleep... One good pull and it would be all over before he became conscious! Mrs. Nose Hair might have improved his student's grades. Use a mirror to REALLY see yourself and do the right thing! ---------------------------------------------------------------- THE UGLY. Ain't no such thing!!! If you're a loving and decent person, there's gonna be somebody out there whose gonna think you're beautiful! --------------------------------------------------------------- Previous LoveLetters can be read at http://eiw.com/loveletters/ Feel free to recommend LoveLetters to those of your friends to whom it may be helpful or entertaining... http://eiw.com/loveletters/ If you no longer wish to receive LoveLetters, send an email to me with "No More LoveLetters" as the subject. ----------------------------------------------------------- end of issue. |