MARK'S... ------------------------------------------------------------ * * * *** * * ***** * ***** ***** ***** ***** *** * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *** * *** * * *** *** * * * * * * * * * * * * * ***** *** * ***** ***** ***** * * ***** * * ------------------------------------------------------------ Volume 3 ~ Issue 3 ~ 30 January 2000 (C)2000 Mark Krell ------------------------------------------------------------ IN A HEARTBEAT! How could I resist writing to this lady? She's got her head screwed on straight as far as I'm concerned! If THIS ONE rejects me, I WILL feel sad! My screen name is ******** (Member No. ********) and I am a 49 year old Female from atlanta, Georgia , United States. My hair is brown, my eyes are brown and I am 5'1" (154 Cm.) tall. My body style is petite and I weigh 112 Lbs (51 Kgs.) , I am physically active in selected activities, I never smoke and I drink socially. I am single and I have no children, and I do not wish to have children . I am Caucasian, my religion is *, and I grew up in ***********, ***********. I have completed some college and the emphasis of my studies was in *********. My occupation is: ******* - and my annual income is not disclosed. As for politics, my views are Unspecified I wish to get married. Relocation is an option I am willing to consider. I view Appearance as Medium Importance.I view Intelligence as Important. My astrological sign is Taurus. My personality traits are: adventurous, earthy, easygoing, flexible, humorous, low maintenance, nurturing, practical, romantic, sensitive, simple, spiritual, talkative, wild, worldly. The activities I enjoy are: intimate conversations, eating, listening to music, surfing the Internet, traveling. I like these kinds of music: Classical, Oldies, Classical Rock n' Roll. I usually read: non-fiction, magazines, newspapers. I go out to: art galleries, the theater, the beach, the movies, comedy clubs, concerts, bookstores. My favorite cuisine: Indian, Italian, Vegetarian. I like these physical activities: bicycling, boating, swimming, working out. More about me: i'm pretty down to earth - a blue jeans kind of woman.i have a very spiritual outlook and believe there are no "accidents" in life & that there is a reason for everything that happens. i try to learn the life lessons certain events bring. i think i have a pretty good sense of who i am & what i want in life. it's taken a lot of introspection to get to that place. i enjoy life's simple pleasures. i have taken a more gentle path since i moved from nyc to atlanta. i spend a great deal of time on **********, which i never found much time for when i lived in *****. i feel good when i give of myself to people, especially in an intimate relationship. in the kind of relationship i seek, besides being a lover, i would want to be his best friend, someone he could talk openly to about whatever he is feeling, someone he would feel safe doing that with. i'm caring, compassionate, nurturing, passionate, spontaneous, upbeat, really like to have fun. i still like to describe myself as being a child of the 60's. I'd like to meet someone who is between the ages of 46 and 60. His/her marital status may be single, divorced, widowed he/she can be a non-smoker and a non-drinker, a social drinker, an occasional drinker. His/her religion can be: Anglican, Baptist, Catholic, Lutheran, Methodist, Protestant, Other Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, Hindu, Atheist, Other, All Religions. His/her ethnicity can be: White. More about my perfect date: i'd like to meet a man who really values having a relationship and is willing to do what it takes to make it work and keep it special, as i am. he would be honest & communicative, have a good sense of who he is & what's important to him, both in his career & personal life. he would enjoy being a couple. if he's a father, he would have a close relationship with his children, even if they are grown & don't live near him. i would love it if he has children since i have none & feel i have missed out on a big part of life because of that. although he would be considered a responsible person, he would be playful, have a good sense of humor & not take himself too seriously & allow himself to be human. it wouldn't hurt if he's romantic on occasion. lots of kisses on the back of my neck have been known to really do it for me. In my mind, our first date should be as following: i love hanging out at coffee houses so that would be a good first date - just sitting on a comfy couch and talking for hours over coffee. starting to get to know the other person. the most important thing about a 1st date is that the chemistry needs to be there. if it is, it doesn't matter where you are or what you're doing. My perception of an ideal relationship: my ideal relationship would be one in which my partner and i have many mutual interests, a similar value system and goals and really enjoy sharing our lives together. it would be a relationship based on trust & and we would always treat each other with kindness & honesty. we would be each other's best friend. oh, and great sex would be pretty high up on the list too. This is what I've learned from my past relationships: unless both people are commited to being in the relationship and have the same direction and interests, it may be difficult to sustain. one person can't make a relationship work. it's a 100% deal, with both partners putting in 100%. but it shouldn't be work - if you really love each other, working things out wouldn't be difficult because neither one would be selfish - each would want to see the other's point of view. it may take some effort but a good relationship is well worth it and sure beats being alone. Dear ********, I have been e-seeking a new partner for about six months. I have never felto so strongly about writing a letter to a lady that I've never met than I do now writing to you. You have a face that I would joyfully look at every day for the rest of my life (and the rest of you isn't hard to take), but your writings tell me that you have learned many of the same lessons from life that I have and that we have developed many similar values and wants. Your profile has made you so important to me that I find myself wanting to be very careful about how I approach you. There is nothing you will ever discover about me that would make me less than one of the nicest guys you've ever met, and sane coupled with the the emotional capapability, mental attitudes, physical capability, and the wisdom to "pet kitty every day"; making a good loving partner who is anything but boring and mndane. Even so, nobody is perfect... I'm going to tell you the worst thing you will ever discover about me in the next paragraph, and I ask you not to react so quickly that you don't read past it... I am a wheel chair user. This DOES NOT mean that I'm a sad case... You might be surprised at how well I move around and how well I am in control of my life. This presents you with the question of how much you may feel cheated if you chose a man in a chair ... I assure you that there is a much more important question facing you... I have a web page at http://eiw.com/together/ which contains a letter to my future sweetheart... I am asking you to visit my page and read that letter... Please ask yourself this question... How much might I be cheating myself if I don't give the guy who could write this letter a chance? Especially since he's telling me that he's a fun person to know... I AM who that page SAYS I am. I am a truthful and sincere man... I may have lost my feet, but the rest of me works better than you'd believe, both mind and body. I realize that I'm trying very hard to get YOUR attention... Why not?... You could easily qualify to me as the most beautiful girl in the world... I am still a red-blooded American boy and I KNOW the good stuff when I see it! There are many attractive women on the dating sites, but I have never before written this strongly an introductory letter. I know that this is because your writings make me believe that I have been searching for you for many years. Even so, should you not find yourself able to deal with whatever, I cannot have any feelings but to wish you much success in finding the happiness I believe you very much deserve to find. Mark mark@my_domain.com Mark Krell (phone) my address (12 years) Buford, GA 30518 Felonies: None Misdemeanors: None Neurosis: Nione Psychosis: None Emotional Quirks: None Ladies Hurt: None Now... I wait. ------------------------------------------------------------ CRAZY LADIES WITH TA-TA'S... I was still a teenager when I lost the first love of my life to leukemia... In those days (y'know, when George Washington, Tom Jefferson, Benny Franklin and I ran around together) there were generally groups of guys and gals who knew each other and socialized... The thing I never liked was that the girls got together and decided which of them was going to get which guy... I resisted getting today's crazy lady... The crazy lady of this issue was a sister of one of my guy friends with whom I shared hobby interests and I used to go over to his house because he had a great hobby setup... Sometimes when I got there, he'd be talking with his father and I'd have to wait... She used to take advantage of these opportunities to try to get my attention... There's a saying, "If you've got it, flaunt it!"... She never lost an opportunity to come near wherever I was sitting and present her bust to me at eye level... She really succeeded in commanding my attention one day when she was wearing an elastic tube top and she jumped on me pretending to fight with me... The top popped down and I have to admit my attention was riveted on her ta-ta's for a full two seconds!... This would not have been possible if she hadn't stayed still for all that time before giggling and pulling her top up... Two seconds can be a LONG time!... If she hadn't been so loud and pushy, I'd have wanted her... It took over thirty years for her to figure that out, and I'm still not sure she understands... She located me a few years back and wrote me a letter telling me about her life... I wrote back asking, "At this point, how do you see me as being able to enrich your life?"... She actually answered my letter but not my question... All she did was tell me how hopless I was. IF there is any moral here, it's that it takes more than ta-ta's to get Mark. :) --------------------------------------------------------------- Previous LoveLetters can be read at http://eiw.com/loveletters/ Feel free to recommend LoveLetters to those of your friends to whom it may be helpful or entertaining... http://eiw.com/loveletters/ If you no longer wish to receive LoveLetters, send an email to me with "No More LoveLetters" as the subject. ----------------------------------------------------------- end of issue. |